Category Archives: Relationships

Using spiritual principles to form attachments

Using spiritual principles to form attachments In the cognitive principle matrix there are six phases of attachment. Phases 1 to 4 relate to attachment to our primary relationship at a particular time, for example, to your mother or later in life to your partner. Phases 5 and 6 relate to attachment to your higher spiritual…
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Case study in commitment

Case study in commitment A month ago Jack arrived for counselling with a lot of anger about his girlfriend, Erin and the fact that he could not please her and that her demands on him seemed very high. We worked through his low self-esteem issues and his history of people pleasing to earn acceptance. Erin…
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